Maini Homer — February 10, 2020 Every day, I see people who are not doing anything to improve themselves emotionally, mentally or even physically. They spend their days doing jobs they do not love because they have been conditioned to believe that they are not good enough for anything better.
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So, they stay in the same jobs year on year, trudging back and forth, and one day they wake up at 70 and wonder where their life went.
I cannot stress enough just how important it is to work on your self-development. If you do not continually grow, you can find yourself with no goals, no dreams and really no desires.
It is something I deal with every day with my clients, and it is really sad when I ask them one question.
I ask them “If you had no limitations, what would you have in 3 months’ time?” Most of them stare at me blankly and this is when I truly know I must help them over the line and get them the help they need.
So, why is it so important to work on your self-development?
It’s important because it helps you to be sure you can have, and that you do live the exact life you want, without anything stopping you and holding you back. It’s important because it allows you to build confidence and have certainty. It matters because it can help you find your self-belief and to know your self-worth.
Without these vital life skills, you could end up living a life that is less than what you wanted. You could allow your fears to control you, and find yourself settling for much less than you deserve. This can affect you in all areas in your life. In your relationships, your career and even your finances.
Another reason why it’s vitally important to work on your self-development is that it really is our responsibility to future generations. We are responsible not only for our own well being but also for the well being of our children and our future generations as well.
What we do, our children imitate. So if we are ensuring we are the absolute best version of ourselves by working on our self-development, we’ll actually be helping our children become better versions of themselves as well.
By installing a strong mindset in ourselves, and building our own self-confidence, self-worth and self-belief, our children will see this and probably follow suit. So, not only will we be doing ourselves the world of good, we’ll be helping future generations heal what’s hindered them in the past and set a new course for them as well, won’t we?
The easiest way to know with 100% certainty that you can have the life of your dreams is to go and get your mindset cleared.
Working with an Mindset Coach like myself, we’ll be able to guide you through a process of removing your negative emotions such as Anger, Sadness, Fear, Hurt and Guilt and free you from those limiting beliefs such as “I am not good enough”, “I am not worthy” and “I can’t have what I want”.
This is when you can really start building your self-confidence, self-worth and self-belief back.
When you do this, you will truly experience the freedom that comes with knowing that you can do and have anything you desire or put your mind to.
Imagine if you had a strong mindset, and you could handle any situation you came across with grace and charm. Imagine how quickly you could rise up the corporate ladder or expand your business. If everything that arose for you was handled calmly and did not stress you out at all, how much more would you be able to achieve in your career or business?
If you could be the master of your emotions and not react when someone hurts you, neglects you, ignores you, or lets you down. How good would your relationships then become? If you had the strength to only choose the people who lifted you higher, and the confidence to walk away from the others who didn’t, how would that change your life for the better?
Imagine It…
I didn’t always believe I could you know… For years I doubted myself, and I doubted my abilities. I grew up in an abusive environment with two other siblings and luckily, I’m the one who got out!
I watch as they continue with their destructive mindsets, destroying the next generation, who inevitably are now destroying the next generation. I thank God for the path I was pushed onto.
I look in from a distance as they sit there in their mediocre lives, not living the life they want, and not getting where they want to go, all the while blaming everyone and everything around them for their circumstances.
I see this daily in my clients who want so much more with their time here on Earth, and because they’ve made a better choice, they are now starting to live the life of their dreams and desires.
You can too. It really only takes one small step to start on a different pathway. It doesn’t have to be a big leap, just a baby step is all it takes, and then you can experience the freedom I feel every day, knowing you are worth it and you truly deserve the world.
You want that, don’t you?
Do yourself a favour and reach out today. Together we can make your world a much better place and ensure that your future and the future of your children and grandchildren are secured in a positive, uplifting and life-changing way.
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